Wednesday Wisdom With Wyndham – 96

Wisdom “One-Anothers”

Breaking all rules of grammar, today “one-another” becomes a verb. We receive so much encouragement from you as we are continually “one-anothered.” And today, we pause to thank God for you, and for the powerful “one-anothering” you provide for us.

No words can properly express our gratitude for: the smiles you put on our faces; the refreshment you place in our souls; the extra burst of energy you place in our cells; and the perseverance you pour into our attitudes. These come from your daily prayers (which humble us), your words of encouragement (through calls, texts, and cards) that lift our spirits, your thoughtfulness (through acts of service) that help meet our needs, your faith that inspires our hearts, and your sharing of Scriptures that helps us persevere.

Wyndham’s disease stinks. A quick Google search of “Multiple System Atrophy” is daunting. It’s described as a combo of ALS and Parkinsons, as if one is not enough. The disease is hard, and continual. Caretaking is hard, and continual. Yet somehow, by the grace of God, the encouragement of our family, the prayers and encouragement from dear brothers and sisters in Christ—near and far…we feel indescribable joy, closeness to God, peace that passes understanding…for real. And all while this cloud of grief and suffering looms over our heads. It just doesn’t make sense, except for God.

Today we want to say thank you. You have no idea how much your prayers, words, cards, texts, calls, (short) visits, acts of service, comments on Facebook and this blog encourage us. To know we are prayed for around the world is extremely humbling, and every time I think of this I cry, with gratitude. Prayer makes a difference. I feel it.

Our amazing immediate family—they are all in, with all heart. Our extended family continually shows care and concern. Our spiritual family, golden friends, friends from afar, and new friends are sources of great strength and encouragement. Some are constant card-writers or texters, somehow always spot-on with the need of the day.

Our family group is truly a “family” group. Most of us are needy. Several of us are caretakers. Within the past few months, two in our group have passed from this life to Paradise (and what stories of faith they take with them). We have among us disabled children, aging parents, aging selves :-), Parkinsons, MS, MSA, congestive heart failure, raising of grandchildren, and various other situations. But a more giving, vibrant, faithful group can’t be found. Whether it’s praying, serving, providing meals, studying the Bible, baptisms, singing, Christmas caroling, serving the poor, taking the family group service dog to Children’s and Veteran’s hospital, and just inventing ways to encourage and do good…this describes the group. What a beautiful plan of God to give us a physical and spiritual family.

I have learned so much about the value of encouragement and the wisdom of God in creating relationships. The demonstration, by the triune God, of love and relationship is beyond understanding. My greatest regret presently, is that I can’t do more for others who face difficult times. I can pray, and can learn to be a better card writer and encourager as I go.

It’s beautiful and challenging to reflect on some of the Scriptures about our relationships in the body of Christ. Here are a few of God’s instructions on “one-anothering.”

Be devoted to one another in love. Honor one another above yourselves. (Romans 12:10)

Live in harmony with one another. Do not be proud, but be willing to associate with people of low position. Do not be conceited. (Romans 12:16)

Let no debt remain outstanding, except the continuing debt to love one another, for whoever loves others has fulfilled the law. (Romans 13:8)

I myself am convinced, my brothers and sisters, that you yourselves are full of goodness, filled with knowledge and competent to instruct one another. (Romans 15:14)

Be completely humble and gentle; be patient, bearing with one another in love.(Ephesians 4:2)

Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you. (Ephesians 4:32)

Submit to one another out of reverence for Christ. (Ephesians 5:21)

Bear with each other and forgive one another if any of you has a grievance against someone. Forgive as the Lord forgave you. (Colossians 3:13)

Let the message of Christ dwell among you richly as you teach and admonish one another with all wisdom through psalms, hymns, and songs from the Spirit, singing to God with gratitude in your hearts. (Colossians 3:16)

Therefore encourage one another and build each other up, just as in fact you are doing.(1 Thessalonians 5:11)

Thank you for the ways you “one-another” us. Your words and prayers are deeply valued. May we all keep “one-anothering” each other in these ways. We love you.


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  1. Tammy Fleming

    Jeanie, I love your writing. Today’s post is like reading a psalm. Thank you for the way you honor God with your writing — I love your writing. I will save this one especially for times of feeling lonely and afflicted, when I and my friends will need to borrow faith from someone like yourself. Thank you for sharing.

    • jeanieshaw

      Thanks so much, Tammy. What encouraging words. Thank you. I love you and appreciate you very much.

  2. Elsie

    So encouraging to read this message and scriptures early in the morning,its true theres so much if pain in this world,but when we come together or be there for each other ,it gives strength to that person, may God continues strengthening you ,thank you for your inspiration!

    • jeanieshaw

      Thank you for your encouragement, Elsie

  3. Debbie Mackie

    Your grateful heart is an inspiration. So wish we were closer so we could come by, visit and help out. It is encouraging to know you are encouraged. Please give dearest Wyndham our deep love and tell him we continue to pray, pray, pray. Love you both and eternity waits! Praise God!

    • jeanieshaw

      Thank you so much, Debbie, for your prayers and continual encouragement. Our love to you and your family.

  4. Julie Kinscheck

    What a beautiful heartfelt post! I want you to know that we pray for Wyndham at our nightly prayers very often with the kids. It break my heart to see him declining and I can only imagine how this kind of slow decline must be so difficult certainly for him but also for you and your family.
    You are giants in the faith to all of us.

    We love you and do appreciate all you have done for the kingdom around the world and especially our region.

    Thank you thank you!

    And thank you also for your courageous example right now! Wow!

    Much love,
    Your sister,

    • jeanieshaw

      Thank you so much, Julie. That means a lot. Love to you and your family.

  5. jerrysprague

    Jeanie, my heart really feels for you and Wyndham. Wish I could do more. Much love to you both!

    • jeanieshaw

      Thanks, Jerry. Our love to you.

  6. Jill Elliott

    I love reading your posts. You and your husband are so inspiring. I can’t imagine what you both are going through, but I so admire how you handle it!! I think of you and your husband often. Praying for you and your whole family for God to give you comfort.

    • jeanieshaw

      Thank you so much, Jill. Thank you especially for the prayers.


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About Jeanie Shaw

After retiring from forty-five years in full-time ministry, Jeanie Shaw went back to school to earn her master’s and doctorate in spiritual formation and discipleship. She also serves as a certified Christian life coach who loves helping people discover the joy, peace, and purpose that come from finding and following God’s plan for their lives. She has taught classes and workshops all over the world and has written numerous books. She has four grown children, eight grandchildren, and a golden retriever who thinks he is human. When she is not reading, writing, coaching, teaching, or enjoying her family she might be found walking along rivers, learning new lessons about life.

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